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Being Somali Gay Sex Worker (untold story)
Posted by Yaasiin (Yaaska)
My name is Yaasin (Yaaska), 26, a gay sex worker now in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, I have slept at least 1000 men during my sex working past nine years, sometimes I have been sleeping two or three men in a night, some with condoms others without condoms, because much of the men don’t like condoms but fortunately I recently test my blood and survived, now I am HIV-, only one thing helped me is that the countries I was working (Somalia, Yemen and Saudi Arabia) have minimum of HIV Positive, I also thought that anal and oral sex don’t transmit the disease, but I later recognized oral and anal sex is not a safe although heterosexual is more dangerous than it.
Sometimes I don’t enjoy sex with my clients, you know sex is good and nice, but its not nice when you are doing it with the wrong person for the wrong reason. There are well respected men in the Somali society; businessmen, leaders and very important persons, that like picking us, you will meet somewhere and after discussing he will go outside and tell you to follow him 10 minutes, so that people don’t see he was gone with you.
Men cannot stop coming with Somali Gay Sex Workers, because, they do things their wives or girlfriends don’t do. What I observed is that two-third of the middle-age men like oral and anal sex; that is why we were better than women for us. Men like a variety of the things but their wives don’t satisfy them, some men like different styles in bed and can do crazy things.
Some men like oral sex, which they cannot get from their housewives, young boys also like gay sex when they chewing Jaad (qaad) or become drunk. The reason being that they have wives or are single but just prefer sex with men. I have been in the prostitution business since I was 17 years, so I would stop if I find something better to do.
Some men can refuse to pay when he finishes the job, but I don’t allow it, because the only time men can respect you is the time his semen is still in his dick, if he releases he doesn’t know you or can refuse your money as you agreed. My mother and father don’t know what I do, I send money and gold to them, and would not want to find out me.
There are friendly cities for gay and lesbian, in Somalia-Somaliland, like; Mogadishu, Marka, Hargeisa Bossaso, Kismayu and Berbera and also Djibouti. Most gay and lesbian live these cities, But Yemen is better where most of the people can understand gay and lesbian, don’t tell don’t attack, do it, I have been in Aden and Sana’a for two years, when group of gays and lesbians fled from our home country because of insecurity and the joblessness both. I had in a Yemeni jail for a week, while one Yemeni policeman fought with me and refused my payment after dancing and doing the job.
You can do it young Yemeni boys and police, the people mostly use gays. Once a time, five Yemeni policemen raped me, five cocks one time, they gave me a chance to use Vaseline so I didn’t feel painful, only one of them gave me some amount, because police doesn’t pay money, they like sex for free because of their power in authority, other young police officer took me to police station and arrested me after refusing sex, because I was very tired that time, but he raped me later in the detention where rape cases and gay sex is common worldwide (prisons and police custody). What I discovered was more shocking than what I expected, gang sex rape, Beaten and all kinds of abuse. Luckily Inspector of the police station fell in love with me when I followed his command and did sweet dancing for him, and released me after two days.
Now in Saudi Arabia, the situation is quite different to Yemen, where native women are very expensive, causing large gays demand, the Somali Women Prostitutes and gays earning big money every week or almost everyday. Here straight boys are hammering (pumping) gays every day to survive sex starving where they can’t find clean ladies. But security is worst than Yemen in many times, so we should keep out situation deep in closet. Gays and foreign attack happens every single day. And you should know Saudi gay and lesbian nationals live openly in many times because of their huge tribe, no one can touch their bodies.
Consequently, life expectation in KSA is higher than Somalia and Yemen. What I surprise is that Yemen and Saudi Arabia have laws ordering gay sex for death penalty, and almost everyone was doing, or at least knew it; but in Somalia, the situation is different in so many ways, there was growing number of gay and lesbian, and I think they could get recognition in the future not in the constitution but in the community.
I had changed my name for my protection, and I hope I will see this story on Somali Gay Community.
Bro your story put in a melancholy mood, with that being said I just want to say that has nothing to do with being gay. You are simply sex worker and I don't feel sorry. Get a normal job, if you can't go home.
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2. 08-06-2010 16:05
wow what a shocking story. Good luck.
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3. 14-08-2009 21:34
hey bro i feel sorry for you i hope you will find some other job insha allah
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4. 31-03-2009 18:02
Waa sheeko layaab leh waana dhab iney sidaasi jirto, Carabta iyagaa ugu badsada adduunka futada la waso, rag badan oo wasidda wiilasha wax kasta oo kale ka jecel ayaa jira, laakiin iska yaree haddii aanad joojin karayn baan kugula talin lahaa, nasiib wanaagsanna waan kuu rajeynayaa
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5. 21-03-2009 22:46
Saaxiib waa mahadsantahay inaad nala qaybsatay dhacdadaada. Waan tagay Jeddah. Habeen ayaa waxaa la sheekaystay wiil gadayey dukaan ku yaalay suuqa soomaalida. Canbaar ka dib wuxuu iisheegay inuu hayo hablo soomaali ah lacagna qaata oo jirkooda gada. Aad ayaan ula yaabay in jirto arintan weliba KSA. Markaan weydiiyey halka ficilka ka dhacayo wuxuu iisheegay inay aqalkooda dadka ku qaabilaan ama ay hotelkayga imanayaan. Muusan ogayn inaan wiilasha ka helo. Markaasaa gartay waxa ka jira wadankaas. Walaal hadda heli karto iska daa shaqadaan. Waxaan kula jeclaan lahaa inaad meherad kale samaysato. Qatar ayaa naftaada u keenaysaa. Saaxiib qeyr ayaan kuu rajeynayaa.
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6. 08-03-2009 17:45
really it is wonderful story, as i know there are many young gay who are working as prostitution because they haven't another choice to survive there lives, even in Europe there are many who haven't permission to stay are doing like this stuffs, really i can understand someone who is from somalia, and living KSA who is haven't permit resident and haven't work of course the life is pushing him to do like that, but dear brother i advise you: the life is larger than to be as a sex worker, there is lot of things to do to survive your life, and you are too young, so please try to create another things who is better than this dangerous work for your health and life both, i hope i will see when day that you live great life \ "boodyada raggaba malin bay dani banaysa ee nin murugo seexdaba rajan laga qusanayn adigo bogsaday oo ku nool farxad noololeed rabi waxan ka baryaya in aan arko biligda dayreed ee"
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